It is actually really easy to love and respect a man who leads by example in love, kindness, gentleness and THE TRUTH. Once upon a time I did not think I would ever feel safe with a man. He can be firm, strong and protective. He can lead and correct while still being gentle and kind. But the few out of many things I observed and watched my husband do are: 1. From day one, he always encouraged me to speak my mind, and not be ashamed of my feelings. 2. I have never seen him act out of anger or irr