Your desire to choose the right person should be greater than your desire to be chosen. Validation fades. Alignment lasts. Wanting to be chosen is human. Choosing wisely is power. Prioritize discernment over desperation. Don’t rush to be picked. Take your time to pick well. Love isn’t a competition — it’s a decision. Being chosen feels good, but choosing right matters more. Attention is temporary. Character is not. The desire to be chosen can make you overlook red flags. The discipline to choose